When planning a funeral or memorial, people tend to focus on the big-ticket items—like the venue, the flowers, the eulogy, and, of course, the music. But let’s be real, it’s often the little details that make a service truly memorable. At my company Muldowney Memorials, we’re all about creating an experience that hits all the senses, leaving a lasting and meaningful impression. Here’s a little peek into how we do it.
Visual Sensations: Creating a Scene That Speaks
We all know how much visual stimuli affect our moods and emotions. That’s why we’re super careful to observe the setting for each service, paying attention to the colours, shapes, and textures that will surround everyone.
Whether we’re indoors or out, the visual element is like the canvas we paint on to set the vibe. Think about the way flowers are arranged, the flicker of candles, or even how the light hits the room—every detail is a reflection of the person we’re honouring.
Auditory Sensations: A Soundtrack for the Soul
Sound is one of the most underrated yet powerful tools when it comes to emotions. Whether it’s the soft rustle of leaves in the wind, a favourite song, or just the quiet in between—silence can be golden, too—we want to create a symphony that feels just right.
We love helping families choose music that brings back cherished memories or just feels like the right tribute. It could be something as simple as wind chimes, a solo violin, or a carefully curated playlist that reflects the life of the person we’re remembering.
Tactile Sensations: Grounding in the Moment
Touch is one of those senses we sometimes forget about, but it’s so grounding, especially during emotional times. We often offer keepsakes like a smooth stone, a favourite fabric, or even a personal item of the person who has passed.
The texture, weight, and temperature of these items can really help people connect on a deeper level, offering comfort and grounding during grief.
Olfactory Sensations: The Power of a Scent
We all know how a certain scent can instantly transport us to a specific moment or memory. Whether it’s the fresh scent of flowers, the warmth of candles, or a personal fragrance, the sense of smell is key in making a service feel personal.
A calming scent like lavender or even the perfume or cologne of the departed can create a space where memories come flooding back—allowing people to reflect and feel closer to their loved ones.
Gustatory Sensations: Taste as Memory
Taste might seem a little outside the box for a funeral or memorial, but trust me, it’s a game-changer. Food is comfort, and sharing a favourite meal or snack of the departed can be a beautiful way to bring everyone together.
We encourage families to incorporate something meaningful—a special dish, a favourite drink—whatever helps spark that moment of connection. It’s not just about the food, it’s about the shared experience, the flavours, and the memories tied to them.
We get that a funeral isn’t just an event—it’s an experience. By engaging all five senses, we create those special moments of connection, reflection, and remembrance that stay with you long after the service is over.
