"It’s too early. I’m too young.”
Accepting our mortality is very difficult to do but important that we do it.
The main difference between a planned funeral and an “at-need” funeral is simply time and pressure.
For sudden death cases, funeral decisions have to be made quickly and during the time when survivors are in the midst of grieving.This can be a difficult time where those grieving do not have the capability to think of how the deceased would have wanted their funeral.