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Monday, 10 October 2022

Cake: A Symbol of Celebrating Life Moments with Suelin Chen

   





Funeral preplanning is important because it guarantees that when your time comes, your family can have a fitting and personal farewell. This means giving yourself and your loved ones the best chance of moving forward in a healthy way from the loss of a loved one.

Join us in this episode as we have our guest, Suelin Chen, CEO of Cake, talk to us all about her company, a digital self-serve suite of tools spanning from
planning to bereavement support.

LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:

  • How to create a plan for a meaningful ending so they can live their best life through Cake.
  • CAKE: A symbol of celebrating life moments
  • Why end-of-life planning is actually all about honoring life. 
  • The importance of funeral planning. (... and how does it feel setting up your own?) 
  • Why should people know how funeral services work? 


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Saturday, 8 October 2022

Part 2 - The Hosts of Undertaking The Podcast join The Glam Reaper Podcast to talk about life and death in the world of funerals.

  



Part 1 of this podcast had these three fabulous hosts discussing the idea of a celebrant. If you missed the episode, catch it first before you tune into the more light-hearted part 2.  

It does get serious a little in this episode where we discuss how funeral directors get alot of backlash from every side. Is it a business, is it an industry? Should people be expected to work for free? Do families feel robbed when at a funeral home? Does the media make us think that?

The conversation talks about preplanning and how we are all unique humans at the end of the day and everyone suffers loss, even your funeral directors. 

A lighter tone was used at the end of the conversation, and it was a great way to conclude the episode.  Enjoy! 

LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:

  • What is the value of giving a funeral service?
  • A thank you note received by Brian that disproves what people are thinking about Funeral Directors
  • Why is Jennifer not going back into being a wedding planner?
  • Jennifer's book, her 3rd book coming up and the podcast. 
  •  About the Undertaking Podcast where Funeral Directors, Ryan Ballard and Brian Waters discuss life, death and the stories of funeral service.
  • Jennifer posed a question to Brian and Allan - Who are your favorite and your worst guests? 
  • Ryan and Brian being asked on what is the future of the funeral industry and what is their funeral song? 

Connect with Brian Waters and Ryan Ballard:


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Part I - The Hosts of Undertaking The Podcast and The Glam Reaper Podcast talk about funerals with a Celebrant

 





The guys from “Undertaking, The Podcast”, Brian Waters and Ryan Ballard joined The Glam Reaper, Jennifer Muldowney in this epic two-part (and maybe more!) episode talking all things funeral.  As we are both natural hosts of our own podcasts, there was a reversal of roles throughout.  I asked questions of the lads and Brian quizzed me back which I happily obliged!

Of course, we chatted and discussed and digressed so much that we had to edit this into two episodes and honestly, it could have been 3 but I figured not everyone wants to hear us just shooting the sh*t. In this episode, you will hear us focus mostly on the idea of the celebrant and what it can do for both families and funeral homes. Happy listening! 


LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:

  • What goes into the thought process in creating a memorial and being a celebrant?
  • How does a celebrant help a funeral home?
  • What happened when Brian, a Funeral Director, was asked to offer eulogies for the departed? 
  • Why is it okay to get emotional during the funeral service?
  • What about the clergy? Will they be replaced by celebrants?
  • How rewarding is it to be a celebrant?


Connect with Brian Waters and Ryan Ballard:


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Tuesday, 14 June 2022

A Celebration of Life the Green Way With Elizabeth Fournier

 

Notice how many people are into renewable energy, into protecting the environment, opting for hybrid or electric cars, and so on? It is not surprising that people can also embrace the green lifestyle in handling the end-of-life phase with natural burial or what is popularly called these days ‘green burial’. This is the episode where the Glam Reaper meets the Green Reaper, Elizabeth Fournier. Elizabeth is the author of “The Green Burial Guidebook: Everything You Need to Plan an Affordable, Environmentally Friendly Burial” and she helps families with how they want to celebrate the lives of their dearly departed. There are many options, of course, but being a member of the Advisory Board for the Green Burial Council, she is certainly an authority on the subject and why she is known as the “Green Reaper”. Enjoy listening! LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:

  • About Elizabeth Fournier's journey in the funeral industry and her initiation on the green burial option.
  • What is the story of Elizabeth's first natural burial experience?
  • How many states allow natural burial and what sorts of legal restrictions are there in every state?
  • What are some problems that we can anticipate with natural burial and what precautions should be taken beforehand?
  • How was the ambiance of that first natural burial and how did Elizabeth's green journey progress from that?
  • Does Elizabeth's funeral home only do green burials? (... What are the other options and guidance she can provide to people?)



Resources:

Green Burial Council

National Home Funeral Alliance



Connect with Elizabeth Fournier:

Website

Email



Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: 

Facebook Page: Muldowney Memorials & Rainbow Bridge Memorials

Instagram: @muldowneymemorials 

Twitter

YouTube

Wednesday, 8 June 2022

Should Planning Your Own Funeral Be Scary or Fun with Erica Hill





They say that you can't always get what we want in life but what’s worse is, we can’t get what we want after life, as well.  How many funerals have you been at where you have questioned the lack of ‘personality of the deceased’ in the service? It is a serious thing. And a serious problem in the funeral business. 

So should you be spending time planning your funeral now, even at an early age? 

Jennifer, the Glam Reaper had an enlightening conversation with Erica Hill about how she created Sparrow, a contemporary funeral home in Brooklyn. Erica feels that people are looking for something different in their final story, funeral/memorial and is trying to make sure it is a story being told from the heart.



LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:
  • What makes Erica think that Sparrow’s service is different in comparison with the rest?
  • Why did Erica venture into the founding of Sparrow Funeral Home?
  • What was wrong with most funeral services in failing to properly represent the deceased?
  • Why is pre-planning of your funeral important? (...Erica using the funeral of her friend as a positive example for pre-planning.)
  • What is the plan for the future for Sparrow? 
  • Erica shared one of her unforgettable recollections for a funeral service Sparrow did for families.

Connect with Erica Hill:

Website

Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: 

Facebook Page: Muldowney Memorials & Rainbow Bridge Memorials

Instagram: @muldowneymemorials 

Twitter

YouTube

Sharing Solace, You Are Not Alone With Crystal Webster


Sometimes your grief is aggravated by people who in spite of coming from a sincere place of wanting to support are not really helping. They say things that are not supposed to be told to a grieving person, but really they are just trying to help in their wrong awkward way. When we are supporting someone who is grieving, we just need to understand that they are clouded with emotions and can sometimes act irrationally.


Sharing Solace was officially launched May 19, 2018, on the 8th birthday of Crystal Webster’s daughter Madelyn Elizabeth who died in her arms after 8 beautiful hours of giving birth to her. In this episode, Crystal said that the idea of Sharing Solace was from Madelyn and she felt that she was ready to begin to heal and help others do the same. It's OK to feel lost and it is OK to want extra support. 

 


LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:

  • Crystal’s painful journey started in 2010.

  • How did Crystal come out of the dark place and started the business of helping people who are grieving to heal?

  • The flagship locket set from Sharing Solace and their mission for people in grief.

  • How is Crystal able to work with people who share their stories of grief? (...Is she taking people’s grief home and absorbing them, as well?)

  • The problem for funeral homes with children's funeral, how unprepared funeral homes are (...What did Crystal choose to do for Madelyn?)

  • How important is pre-planning of your own funeral?

  • Jennifer’s experience every time she attends the Professional Women's Conference by NFDA (National Funeral Directors Association).

  • What is the concept of Hanlon's Razor? 


Connect with Crystal Webster of Sharing Solace:

Website



Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: 

Facebook Page: Muldowney Memorials & Rainbow Bridge Memorials

Instagram: @muldowneymemorials 

Twitter

YouTube

Tuesday, 7 June 2022

Mobile Technology for People Who Are Grieving with Emma Payne


Have you ever struggled on what to say to people who are grieving the death of a loved one? Sometimes what you will say can trigger more emotional stress instead of alleviating the hurt, and you can cause some harm unintentionally. Grieving is hard but if you have family and friends who can support you, it dramatically alters everything for the grieving person. Getting good support does not have to be hard. 


This week's guest, Emma Payne, will talk about how she used her expertise and passion for technology to give people the confidence and tools they need to cope with grief. Providing support during a time of loss can be a profound experience. Support is just a text away!


LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:

  • What is ‘Grief Coach’ and what prompted Emma to launch it?

  • How can people obtain a subscription to ‘Grief Coach? 

  • Emma’s thoughts on the fear of saying or doing something.

  • How does the subscription work?

  • Was there a situation where the subscription went wrong? (...What are some feedbacks?)

  • What are some ways that the industry still lacks expertise in several areas and is not updated with the current trends?

  • Is ‘Grief Coach’ just local in Ireland or globally available?

  • What are Emma’s thoughts on the future of the funeral business?



Resources:

A special gift for TGRP listeners - $10 Off a full-year subscription to Grief Coach

https://grief.coach/TGRPodcast


Connect with Emma Payne:

Website - https://grief.coach/


Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: 

Facebook Page: Muldowney Memorials & Rainbow Bridge Memorials

Instagram: @muldowneymemorials 

Twitter

YouTube